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Henley Rae’s Birth Story

February 2, 2016

Henley's Birth Story

She’s here!  Our beautiful girl was born on January 24th at 3:07 PM.  She came in at 7lbs 4 oz and 20.75 inches long.  I have one word for her birth: joyful.  It was a peaceful, beautiful, heavenly experience!  I think I’m still enjoying that post birth high. Labor, however, didn’t start out so fabulous.  

**All photos are by Joleen Pete Photography– who I love and adore and can’t thank enough for capturing such a special time!**

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My labor started on Saturday the 23rd.  I had so much energy that morning I even took my favorite dance class.  I was shimmying and shaking with the best of them, so much so that my instructor asked the class if anyone had any medical experience in case I went into labor.  2 hours later the contractions started.  So you could say that I twerked this baby out 😉 

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They increased and intensified until they were about 5 minutes apart for 2 hours, then we headed into the hospital.  They checked me in, I had progressed about 1 cm, and I was ready to go!  A couple hours later, however, my labor stopped. AGAIN.  I was so frustrated I started crying.  The midwife came in, her name was Janice and I hadn’t had the pleasure of meeting her in the office yet (remember I switched practices at 35 weeks so almost everyone was new to me).  She sat down and said- “Honey, let’s talk.”  Well that scared me a bit.  She then proceeded to walk me through my last labor and delivery.  If you’ve been following for awhile, you know that with Hudson I had a wonderful delivery, then somehow got a hematoma the size of a softball behind my uterus, almost bled out, and was told I needed a hysterectomy.  Needless to say, it was traumatic.  Well Janice walked me through my past birth and then said: “You’re stopping your own labor.”  Ohhhhh.  She then proceeded to explain that if a woman doesn’t feel safe in her environment, she can stop her labor from progressing,  Which is exactly what I had done now, twice.  And I realized, I was terrified of having this baby and something like last time happening again.  She stayed with us for another 30 minutes or so, reassuring me and talking me through our options.  Then she told me to get some sleep and she’d check on me in the morning.

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I didn’t sleep a ton but I did feel better the next morning and the contractions started up again.  They gave me some Pitocin, so there was no turning back- we were having this baby today!  I really wanted to go as all-natural as possible, so I breathed and bounced and walked my way through the contractions.  By early afternoon they were so strong and close together I felt like I was being turned inside out.  I finally called our nurse, Kelly, in and begged her for an epi.  She ran out of the room, grabbed the nearest anesthesiologist, and had him hook me up right then and there.  2 hours later I was told I could start pushing.  

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Now before I get to the delivery part you need to understand who was in the room: my mother, my husband, and Joleen from Joleen Pete Photography (both my birth photographer and dear friend).  Those three made this experience that much more special.  My husband, Jason, was alternating between checking on me and pacing the floor.  He was SO excited to meet his daughter.  My mom, who helped birth Hudson and is my rock in every sense of the word, was playing with my hair and keeping me calm.  And Joleen was snapping pictures, telling me funny stories to make me laugh, and bringing an extra bit of sunshine to an already great day.

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At 3:00PM I started pushing, and the midwife laughed as Henley tried to wiggle her way out all by herself.  At 3:07 PM Henley was born.  She came out squeaking and crying and was laid directly on my chest.  I felt ALL the emotions.  I don’t know if a mother can ever properly describe the feelings that rush in when she first meets her child, but I’ll try.  It’s awe, and pure bliss, and shock, and recognition.  As soon as I saw her, I knew her.  And I loved her with a love so fierce, so all-consuming.   

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Already a daddy’s girl

This beautiful girl has ROCKED our world.  She’s so sweet and snuggly, and we all love her more than words can describe.  Hudson is especially sweet to her and is always offering a helping hand with changing her diaper or rocking her to sleep.  Last night, he even “read” her a book before bed time.  I had to hold my mommy tears back on that one. 

Henley Rae- you are a true blessing in my life.  You’ve only been here a short time and already you’ve brought more joy into this family than I thought possible.  I am honored and humbled to be your mother, and I can’t wait to see the person you become.  But I also CAN wait, so don’t grow up too fast 😉

 

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  1. Brianne Melhouse says

    February 2, 2016 at 8:15 am

    So incredibly beautiful!!!! So proud of you friend!!! Xoxo

  2. Nina @ Hugs and Lattes says

    February 2, 2016 at 8:30 am

    I can definitely understand how scary labor would be after having a traumatic experience a few years beforehand! I’m glad everything went well, though, and your daughter is just so beautiful!!

  3. Shann Eva says

    February 2, 2016 at 8:57 am

    She is beautiful. I’m so glad you had a much better birth experience this time around. Enjoy your precious baby and beautiful family. Love all the pictures. She did a wonderful job capturing the day.

  4. Linh Nguyen says

    February 2, 2016 at 9:16 am

    Omg what a beautiful post and love that she took the most amazing pics of your experience to keep forever!!! So happy and excited for you, love! Hendley is such a beauty ☺
    LINH

  5. Joleen says

    February 2, 2016 at 9:32 am

    Omg the tears!!! So beautifully written. It was such an incredible experience and my absolute honor to be there!!

  6. Jessy @ The Life Jolie says

    February 2, 2016 at 9:38 am

    A beautiful story for a beautiful little girl! I agree with your midwife- I had an amazing first birth experience and o attribute my “textbook” progress to the amazingly supportive atmosphere which made me feel so safe and taken care of! I’m almost scared to do it all again because I can’t imagine the next one being as great as last time. Henley is a precious gift!

  7. Chrissy says

    February 2, 2016 at 10:03 am

    Aw, how wonderful! She is so precious! Congratulations to all of you!

  8. Ashleigh says

    February 2, 2016 at 10:15 am

    Such a beautiful story!! And the pics are very lovely, too! Thank you for sharing your special day… and welcome to the world Miss Henley!

  9. Libby says

    February 2, 2016 at 11:33 am

    Congratulations! I’m so glad that things went more smoothly than the last delivery and that you are all happy and healthy! I just love reading birth stories and sometimes wish I had photos from our hospital room, but also loved that it was just my husband and i. How awesome to have you Mom, Husband and friend with you though!

  10. Esther | The Cuteness says

    February 2, 2016 at 11:35 am

    So beautiful! I had no idea about what happened with your son, but I’d be so scared too… I’m so glad it all went well and everyone is happy and healthy! xo

  11. Stefanie (@LexieLooDylan2) says

    February 2, 2016 at 3:23 pm

    Beautiful pictures of your beautiful baby girl! Congratulations!

  12. Kim M says

    February 2, 2016 at 4:07 pm

    Congrats Momma she is beautiful. And the pictures tell the whole story! Beautiful!

  13. Penny Struebig says

    February 2, 2016 at 4:12 pm

    What an adorable baby! It’s great that your friend was there to capture these precious moments.

  14. Colleen says

    February 3, 2016 at 7:48 am

    What a beautiful experience. <3 She is perfection! All the photos just capture it so beautifully as well, what precious memories!! Congratulations!

  15. Stacey says

    February 3, 2016 at 9:36 am

    What a beautiful birth story! Both of your children are stunning, and I love their names!

  16. Deborah @ Confessions of a mother runner says

    February 3, 2016 at 6:51 pm

    oh she is beautiful! Glad to hear mommy and baby are doing well. Enjoy 🙂

  17. Christie says

    February 3, 2016 at 7:21 pm

    A belated congratulations to you both. 🙂 I’m glad everyone came out of it healthy.
    The photos are beautiful – the very first one made my heart melt. You can just see how much love there is in the room. 🙂

    Christie’s Take on Life. x

  18. Camilla says

    February 5, 2016 at 12:41 am

    Absolutely beautiful girl! xo

  19. Sarah says

    February 6, 2016 at 1:23 pm

    How beautiful and adorable is this little girl already?! Thanks for sharing your story with us, you guys all look so happy. Also, I love your blog, it’s truly inspiring!

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